How do you heal a broken heart?

Do you know what hurts the most about a broken heart? Not being able to remember how you felt before... I miss my brother... I miss my friends and most importantly? I miss me. I'm okay, I mean I know I'll be okay. I probably am and just don't know it yet. Leave it to me to be stubborn like that. Its just sometimes when I don't have 10 million other things going on, I break. Its the only way that I've been able to get "over" it. Force myself into so much that I have no other choice but to focus on something else. Sometimes I wonder if it would be better to not feel at all... I don't know... its just one of those days I guess.